I am happily married to the greatest guy in the world and we have three wonderful children. John and i were married April 19th 1997, i was 16 and he was 18. This year is our 10th wedding anniversary and i hoped to renew our wedding vows on the condition that i lost weight. well that didn't happen and wont, i am really pissed at myself for not putting any effort in losing weight. So now that i realize i've lost my one and only chance to that, it's time to take it seriously and then renew them next year. I also don't want my children growing up being overweight living a life of hell like i did, especially my daughter. I also want to be a trophy wife, my husband loves me as i am and is happy with it, but i'm not. i want to be the wife he deserves, the one who will ride his motorcycle with him and go out and enjoy life with him, instead of hiding at home because i feel like an embarassment to him.